Eating disorder recovery coaching

A life beyond food, numbers, and body rules.

Unmeasured is one-on-one recovery coaching for the part of recovery that happens between appointments: the grocery aisle, the restaurant table, the family dinner, the quiet evening at home. I bring lived experience of recovery, years inside athletic culture, and a steady, judgment-free presence, so the hardest moments are no longer ones you face alone.

Virtual sessions, wherever you are in the world. Coaching works alongside your therapist and dietitian, not instead of them.

What a recovery coach does

Most of recovery happens outside the office.

Therapy and nutrition appointments are where the plan gets made. Real life is where it gets tested. A recovery coach is the person beside you for the testing part: someone who knows the terrain, keeps you company in it, and helps you do the next hard thing while it is actually happening.

Practice in real life

We take the goals your team has set and bring them into the real world: a meal eaten together over video, the foods and places you have been avoiding, a menu read out loud until it stops feeling like a threat. Small, repeated, supported practice is how the hard things get easier.

Structure and accountability

Each week we look at what is coming: the travel, the party, the exam week, the empty Sunday. We make a plan you can actually follow, and I check in while it unfolds. Not to police you, but so there is someone to answer to who is on your side.

Someone who has been there

I have sat where you are sitting. I know what the eating disorder voice sounds like at the table and how recovery can feel like losing a part of yourself before it feels like getting your life back. I can tell you honestly that it gets lighter, because I have lived the other side.

A recovery buddy for real life

Recovery happens in the grocery store, not just the office.

These are the moments clients bring to me most often. Some we plan for in sessions. Some we do together, live. Some arrive unannounced, and that is what text support is for.

Grocery shoppingBuilding a list together, then having me on the phone while you walk the aisles and the eating disorder tries to edit the cart.
RestaurantsReading a menu without the spiral, ordering what you actually want, and staying present at the table instead of in your head.
Social events and family gatheringsPlanning ahead for holidays, parties, and the comments that come with them, then a debrief afterward so one hard evening does not undo a good month.
Difficult eveningsSupport for the hours when urges get loud, the day's structure runs out, and the house is quiet.
Food decisionsWorking through the anxiety around what, when, and how much, one decision at a time, until deciding stops taking the whole afternoon.
Meals, togetherCompany over video for the meals that feel impossible alone, until they feel a little less so, and then ordinary.
Cooking and meal prepMaking food in your own kitchen with someone on the line, so the stove stops being a place you avoid.
Hard body image daysGetting dressed, trying on clothes, and going out anyway on the days when the mirror is loud and the plan is to cancel everything.
Who this is for

You do not have to be at any particular stage to start.

Coaching meets you where you are, whether that is the first honest admission that something is wrong or the last stretch of a long recovery.

You want more support alongside your treatment team

You are already working with a therapist, dietitian, or both, and you want someone in your corner for the real-life moments between appointments, when the plan meets the plate.

You are stepping down from a higher level of care

Leaving inpatient, residential, or a day program can feel like losing the ground beneath you. Coaching rebuilds the structure and company you had in treatment, inside your own kitchen and calendar.

You are an athlete, or you used to be

Sport can shape how an eating disorder starts and how recovery feels. I understand the culture, the pressure, the identity questions, and the grief of a changing relationship with your body and your training.

You have never been diagnosed, but food takes up too much space

You do not need a label, a hospital stay, or a certain body to deserve support. If food, numbers, or body rules are running more of your life than you want them to, that is reason enough.

"Your life was never meant to be measured."

The idea behind Unmeasured
How it works

Simple to start, steady to continue.

A free discovery call

A relaxed conversation about where you are, what you are hoping for, and whether coaching is a good fit right now. You decide how much to share. No pressure either way.

A plan shaped around your life

In our first session we map your week: the meals, the people, the places, and the moments that trip you up most. We choose where to start and how often to meet. With your permission, I connect with your therapist and dietitian so everyone is pulling in the same direction.

A weekly rhythm

Sessions to plan and reflect, live support for the moments that matter, and check-ins in between. The work is practical and specific: this meal, this event, this evening, this week.

Room to grow, then room to go

As the hard things become ordinary, we meet less often and you lead more. The goal was never to need a coach forever. It is a life with enough room in it that you do not.

Your team

Where coaching fits beside therapy and nutrition care.

Each person on your team has a different job. Coaching is designed to make the others work better, not to stand in for any of them.

Your therapist

Holds the why. Works with the roots of the eating disorder, your mental health, trauma, and the deeper patterns underneath the behaviors. Diagnoses and treats.

Your dietitian

Holds the what. Builds your nutrition plan, monitors your physical health alongside your doctor, and decides what adequate and flexible eating looks like for you.

Your recovery coach

Holds the how, in the moment. Helps you carry out the plan in the real places it gets hard, stays reachable between appointments, and, with your consent, keeps your team informed about what is working and what is not.

Coaching is

  • Practical, present-focused support for daily recovery
  • A recovery buddy who has walked this road
  • Live help in real situations: stores, restaurants, kitchens, events, evenings
  • Accountability to the plan your team has set
  • A bridge between treatment and everyday life
  • Compassionate, judgment-free, and honest about setbacks

Coaching is not

  • Counseling, therapy, or clinical treatment
  • Medical care, diagnosis, or monitoring
  • Meal plans or nutrition prescriptions
  • A crisis service (see the resources in the footer)
  • A replacement for your treatment team
  • Covered by insurance (Unmeasured is private pay)
What we are working toward

What a life beyond the rules can look like.

Recovery is not only the absence of behaviors. It is what moves back in once they leave. These are the kinds of things clients tell me they want, and the kinds of things we work toward together.

Meals you remember for the conversation, not for the negotiation that happened in your head.
A kitchen without a forbidden shelf, and a grocery trip that is just a grocery trip.
Saying yes to the invitation without needing to know the menu three days in advance.
Movement you choose because of how it feels, not because of what it earns or erases.
Travel, holidays, and celebrations that are about the people and the place.
Mental space back for the things you actually care about. The eating disorder has been renting a lot of it.

You do not have to do the next part alone.

Book a free discovery call. No commitment, no pressure, just a conversation.

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